Sally Kohn: What has changed about the workplace as a result of me too, how would you do that? She says most people don't want to work unless they make an explicit decision based on individual quirky factors. "That's where we are now. That's not where we were a year ago," she said. Do you think Joan, that is a pendulum swing? You know, so much of women's, the advancement of women's rights in the United States has been the story of a swinging pendulum.