How you think will determine how you lead. Any time you overestimate your own importance, you unintentionally undervalue the leaders around you. We're talking about think empowerment, not control. If you feel like you have to admit defeat and stop trying, don't do that because you'll keep living the same life. Don't give up. Look up. As a child of god, you have access to everything that belongs to your heavenly father. Ask him to show you the lies that you believe for too long. Tell him you want your mind to be filled with his truth instead of the devil's falsehood. And then thank him for hearing you.