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"It's not on you to prioritize that over your husband, especially if he's working all the time," she says. "The baby doesn't care about how your husband wants to do it in the butt." The idea that a brand new mom is going to stay up and get 20 minutes of sleep isn't an option for many women who have just given birth or are still trying to conceive their first child. 'You're not seeing right now to the point where your wife is talking about it on my podcast with me,' her mother-in-law adds.