Mistrust With an M, It Just Gives You Option

We either totally trust some one, or they betray us. And then we're done with them. But this other way of thinking, and he calls it mistrust with an m,. That's the name of the book he wrote about this, mistrust, it just gives you option. This is so hard to get your head around. It's basically like saying, trust people less, and that's a more liberating world. Have more respect for the fact that you can't know them and that their behaviour might sometimes betray you or let you down. I mean, it feels like, you know, extending that philosophy to actively bad actors feels like it is a completely different situation, and probably not the