Add Cari says she's seen too many hopeless kids and patients get better. "I've seen too many success stories that have made me, it's just I just don't think it's like logical to be as hopeless" Add Cari: Do you think it's bad for my four-year-old to never take a nap during the day? No. The important thing is that they get sufficient sleep. But then what? Well, there is a nice piece of stock music playing behind me that a talented composer worked really hard on.