Erectile Dysfunction - I'm Not That Bad, but You're on the Spec

Erectile dysfunction is not a disease like, like AIDS. It's just a physical condition. If your penis doesn't get hard when you want it to, that's erectile dysfunction. But also understand this: There are guys who get anxious and have lack confidence that cause erectile dysfunction; then they're due to sexual shame issues that cause erection problems. And it sounds like yours. That's why I say I'm pretty confident you have shame issues because I think you were very confident and attracted to her and you weren't anxious about it."