i'm looking for answers like, is it really me? Is there really something in me that is making other people react this way? Or has it just been lucky? Yes. O, i think chances are, so, generally speaking, when we look at things like this, chances are it's both, right? So let's just, like, take a five thousand foot view. Human beings tend to have particular patterns, and those particular patterns are going to evoke particular responses. And so do you have a contribution to this? I think yes. Does that mean it's your fault? I wouldn't quite go that far, because sometimes we think that a contribution equals fault, right?