You Have to Take Out the Personal Attack

Paul says he feels the ping that happens when somebody criticizes him. People just perceive what they're used to and how they see the world. That is their perception, their perception of you. And again, it's not easy. But i practise this. You have to practise this. This is all about imagining what it would be like if Somebody came up and said, hey paul, i heard that show when you gave that advice to someone that was abusive. What you're telling them is putting them in a worse situation. I'm with you. Because that's them pushing it on to you. And it's not you. It's not about you. It’s