The Hungry Beast Has Learned, You're Okay to Be Selfish, Right?

In a good relationship, you're allowed to be selfish. The other 50 % of the time it's your job to be selfless,. So i don't blame you for wanting, like you have those emotional needs. It's just you need to be a little bit careful about letting them dictate your interactions with other people. What would you tell a friend who was in your situation?