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Are There Escalators Within Monogamy?
i am in a polyfidelitous relationship, and have still absorbed all that escalator expectation from monogamy. So i feel stuck in the middle sometimes with he's messaging. The relationship escolator is fundamentally about two things, relationship characteristics and presumptions about trajectory. When you start thinking about what's next, where is it going, that means that some aspect of this relationship is not meeting where you already are. It is possible to allow relationships to change. Ideally with negotiation, thou through the people involved in it,. Not just some people making decisions for other people.