You Don't Want Your Daughter to See Status as Potential Weapons

"I encounter a lot of people who are like kind of wanting to like gently jostle about status all the time," she says. "You don't want to sit and listen to somebody rattle on about their status as a way of, you know, of like getting info on them." She recommends Judith Martin's Miss Manner's guide to excruciatingly correct behavior. 'It's basically an Emily post etiquette guide, except updated to a modern slack'