When you're a woman to it's just like a fucking you can't win situation. You're told your whole life that your Value is in how you look and sexual appeal. That goes up to a certain point and then you are so appealing sexually that somebody marries you and Pregnates you, Ideally multiple times. Then all you have time and space for is to be a mother Mm-hmm,. which is in our culture the least sexual thing for people and so then you lose It's totally happened to me... I got a reading in one of my books called 'The Power Of Women'