Does It Change Your Attitude as a Psychotherapist?

I remember the points where i consciously made a decision to change something. Nothing changed the day after, but a year later, something changediegantrace it back. I think there's a really important synthesis that has to happen if we justa push on somebody this narrative of "it was your fault" And so i've found that that's the opposite of the constructive kind of mindst tn helps people to take ownership and take responsibility.