You Can't Fix a Hole in the Wall You Don't See

When you have been taught that your feelings don't matter and what you think is stupid, it's a really tall order. We want to learn to get to a state of non resistance where we experience equanimity under dress. And so i talk a lot on the channel about what's wrong, because you can't. fix a hole in the wall you don't see. If you're in a marriage with someone who has these traits, doesn't mean they're a classic n p d or narcisic personality disorder. It doesn't mean that you're not living with someone who sho indifference.