Are You Overly Controlling?

i think there's like a caricature stereotype a naggy person or controlling. And can we all just agree, though, that the, the emotional experience of people who are behaving that way is one of anxiety and fear? I have personally never met any one who has not wished and longed on a very deep level to be in a safe place with a person that they trusted to just handle things for them. They would love nothing more than to say, t you cook dinner, i'll be over here. And they may not trust you to do that. You have a lot of power to change the system,. because they will step back in direct proportion to their experience of you stepping forward