Women in Therapy

I think we self-abnegate when I think Simone Bovar was right when she said that women are not taught to prioritise freedom in the same way that men are. And we end up giving away our freedom when we commit. She was a hypocrite and did not practice what she preached with sort but that's another story. It feels unsightly to own your position and it can feel domineering. Women are still supposed to be the kind of object of desire not the subject that has desire so we will say like I don't mind it's okay it's fine when that's not what we mean.