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#466 - Matthew Fray - How To Avoid Destroying Your Relationship
Modern Wisdom
Relationships That End
I don't think the harm that's caused in relationships is a result of anybody with ill character or ill intention. And what i really hope guys will learn to do collectively is stop with the defensive responses. Defensiveness is inherently invalidating. When somebody says, i hurt and then we make it about us. We make it about our good intentions. The person's pain never gets repaired, trust that never gets restored. Wish i could, wish i could prove this with data. I really believe it's the most common story of relationships that end. What i'm trying to do when i say good people can be bad spouses can be bad partners its it. A man inadvertently does something he
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