Is There a Difference Between My Dad's and My Mom's Side?

I think out of my parents my dad is more so the one to not be as willing to say a lot like he genuinely gets freaked out I don't really but once he drinks he's like I love you girl like I love yeah. My mom's the exact same way and my dad's family is a little scary they used to like if I would cry it would say like they're gonna cut my tongue out because showing your emotion was a sign weakness to them. It's just kind of like how are you raised there's a lot of factorsYeah that's a really good point especially about Like the different provinces and the cultural differences that exist in China.