The Bar That I Want You to Go After

The most important quality in a future partner is someone who is willing to do the work required to create and build a secure and strong partnership overtime. I often see that people think in the infatuation stage that this is awesome, only to find out later, when the going gets tough, that the relationship has dissolved. So let's go after good enough. It's highly unlikely that you're going to find the magical, perfect human being that will check every single funking box and where it all just works out right? You know, that is rare in my experience. And i do meet people that that find someone like that, but i haven't found out if ten, 20 years later