i worry that w we set out to do kind of utopian new forms of human relationship, bearing in mind the pill. There are certain ways in which we have completely different material circumscircumstances from our ancestors. But equally, i think, is it more likely that we're going to end up with a kind of much better, utopian system that's completely brown? Or is it morelikely that we're actually going to endup with an old-fashioned dating one up system when we have efool tosiacabo points here?"