Are You Expecting Too Much Support From Friends?

i could not for the life of me stand having a friend who i knew is not happy for me, does not want the best for me. There is no way that that is going to be a healthy friendship. And as far as seeking or expecting support from friends, i think any good friend is going to support it. When you're younger, you sort of have more time to be invested in what your friends are doing and how things are going for them. But when you get der, you don't really have as much time to be as invested. We also cannot expect them to be too invested, because we have to respect the fact that other people have their own things going on.