How to Survive a Fear of Your Partner

One of my favorite terms and I did not come up with this term, it's called brain weasels. Like sometimes brain weasel can just like wind their way through your brain and create a lot of worry and anxiety for you. If that's something that's coming up for your partner and they're sharing a fear that they have or something that they're really worried about, one of the things that I see a lot is this drive to just reassure your partner that that's not going to happen. And maybe even tell them, man, I'm really hurt that you even think that, that I would do that to you or that this would happen.