You Don't Have to Say a Damned Thing

"If you're running into somebody whos being a dick, they have come from suffering. So the experiment is find that place of sympathy and compassion," he says. "Then, without saying it, god knows, don't say it. Don't put on a show, but start loving it." 'It's wild to see one who is callous, not literally, angry and frozenand all of a sudden they start softening up around you because you've found a thing inside of them to love'