The Power of Mastery in Attraction

A big mistake people make in attraction is they say, I don't like this part of me. So now I'm going to tell you what to think about it as well. People are very suggestible. We can influence other people with our level of certainty. Not because objectively that jacket is so attractive, but because we go, well, this person who's selling this jacket,. really believe in this jacket. They really know that this is the best one. It takes time for people to reach this point with themselves. But if you can get to that point with yourself, then you're not just not giving a negative cue, you're actually giving a positive cue.