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Ep. 45 James "Fish" Gill on seeing beauty in conflict, why certainty is a red flag, and how to see the goodness in each other.

Human Cogs Podcast

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The Pain That We're in Is Not at All What They Want

"In a hundred % of conflicts between us and them, the pain we are in as a result of what they did is not at all what they wanted or s ye e, 100%. That might sound like a stretch, but i i give you that data from my experience of 13 years of working with human beings. Never, once, if we look deep enough into what are they yearning for behind what they did, we will always find that what they were yearning for has a beauty to it," he says. "It's an unconscious mechanism that arrives to us without us ever choosing it."

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