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The Gray Area with Sean Illing cover image

Julia Galef on how to argue better and change your mind more

The Gray Area with Sean Illing

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Keep Your Identity Small

I think noticing cases where you might have committed yourself in the past to a particular belief structure is really helpful. Paul Graham has this great essay titled Keep Your Identity Small, where he basically says how hard it is to think clearly and objectively about things that are part of identity. And I see this happening even on the scale of like a single meeting like if I throw out an idea in a meeting and I'm, I haven't really thought about it too hard I'm just sort of suggesting it. Then suddenly it feels like oh that's Julia's idea and now I have to like defend it whenever anyone criticizes it. Instead of saying like yeah you're right, maybe that isn't a

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