Wait Staff Wows

Our first question is titled, Wait Staff Wows. That's BetterHelpHELP.com slash manners. Hi Lizzie and Dan, thank you so much for your weekly advice. Here is my situation. Just last week I went out to eat with a friend of mine, sort of spontaneously. The restaurant was somewhat fancy with very attentive wait staff. But they checked in on us what felt like every 5 to 10 minutes during our two hours stay. They asked to take our appetizer plate and bread and butter before we were done. While I understand it's not a huge deal and many people would actually prefer a server that is very attentive, I do not. In the most