How to Make a Man Look Sexually Unwanted

The times I've tried to make a more complex argument about sexual assault always seems to backfire because then men get like really invested in like arguing with me. And so it ends up not being worth it because I think I don't change their mind that much. They went some of the women get uncomfortable. Then it just like kind of fucks up my mood for the rest of the day. But yeah, I basically like somewhat made the conversation uncomfortable because I started like saying how completely repulsive and gross a CSUN sorry was. So if you got to like evaluate the situation, like is it safe for me to call him out first of all, like physically safe? Is it politically