Is it just a way of expressing autonomy, social signalling to our peers? Or is there some human need to be a completist and collect do learn everything? Phil payne. Is it true, angy, that most of us do want what we can't have? Well, i was reading lindsey vaughan's new memoir. I don't think sliding down frictionless surfaces with no control is pleasurable. But apparently lindsey van does. And i guess for her, she does have control over it. She talked about, even as a little girl, she would kind hof look to her left, look to ther right, and won won up the people