Sonia: Our biggest blind spot is what makes us extraordinary because we're not in the habit of telling each other what that is. She says it's just a matter of working with people and interacting to figure out, hey, what did you mean by that? Sonia: We have to invite others who know us to tell us the truth about ourselves. "I look back so many times I was spending so much time on the things that weren't my superpowers"