"It's another one of those paradoxical, you know, gifts and and catastrophe that you encounter as you move through life. So anyways, simba, look at how happy he is. You know, bean, he doesn't know a damned thing. He has a match with nolla, and she just pins him down every time," says the author. "And then they are all stupid and it's partly Cause and effect - right? One of the things that happens with men when they meet a woman."