How to Be a Better Conversationalist

I like what the guys in urban philosophy are trying to do, at least with their video podcast. But then as soon as you start name dropping about the things you've read, it kind of kills the whole process. You know, you're a big dweeb if you talk in Leibnizian or Hegelian talk and so you should just stay with the other people who are fans of philosophy. I tend to get my mind on some track that unless then I can sit down with you and explain the whole thing that's just not even worth relating.