How to Deal With a Blow Job

If you're worried about taking too long when giving oral, talk to your partner. A vulva owner identifies as someone who is really good at sex but doesn't perform or offer blow jobs because they feel intimidated by the process. If it takes 45 minutes with just hands and maybe a drink of water and a nap in between, that's like eight hours for me. I think if anyone's ever gone down on me for 45 minutes, I don't think so. So my guess is like it might not be an overnight thing. You know, like you have to probably practice implementing tools and then you'll get the pits again and then you'd like get out of it.

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