Being Vulnerable

Being vulnerable is not something that has come naturally to me. I've only learned and you know partly through steps help Really in the last year and a half where if if he was in previous relationships If I ever pointed the finger, I think that was a defense mechanism because I was so uncomfortable with being vulnerable. It made me feel like Less of a man because I thought I shouldn't feel this way. And then it was really helpful and I I move past that anxiousness Because you know, you reassured me that not only does it not Turn you off, but it fosters connection, which turns you on.