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Esther Perel - Let's Be Better Lovers

The Imperfects

CHAPTER

Is There an Entitlement in Feeling Like That Shouldn't Happen to Me?

The framework in which we're looking at a relationship can affect how we respond to these unpredictable things. The fact that I know my partner could lie to me or my partner could do things that would be hurtful to me is a given. Now that doesn't mean it's going to hurt me less when you do it. But it's not going to make me feel like I've just landed on another planet.

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