Honor Your Father and Mother

As Christians, the verse that kind of begins to pulse in our heads is honor your father and mother. And I know, just for me personally, it seemed like as I began to engage some of the ways that my father and mother harmed me, it felt like I was dishonoring them to do so. But if I heard you right, you're saying the opposite. Yeah. You know, I, but I feel like I've, I've come to feel that's true. So we have to deal with these realities where we're not allowed to actually tap into all of the light that is in us,. If we can't also work through the darkness and face it, honestly.