Is It So Important to Always Put Yourself in Someone's Shoes?

i look to you for guidance, i guess, or inspiration on how it is so important to always put yourself in somebody else's shoes. And yet, he actually told me he was writing a ph d In debauchery. Soeo gonso stuff. It's kind of the emotional or mental, ha, ha. That's, i can be wrong about something, or i i had consider it from that perspective.