Taking the Lead on Safety and Respect, Okay?

When you prioritize safety and respect over making her feel beautiful, that will always put you in a good spot, okay? So as long as you have the intention of whatever you're saying and doing, if that intention is safety and respect comes first, you don't have to worry about taking the lead. Some men have good intentions, but their intentions are coming across to make a woman feel more sexy or beautiful and that's when it crosses a line very easily. And then you, like I said, might feel guilty, might feel shameful about it, might feel like an asshole, might get resentful towards women because she has poor reaction to you trying to make her feel beautiful.