The Role of Sexuality in Erotic Interactions

I feel like though that they're some of the work that's being done by erotic really should be done by reciprocal. And I take it that it's not like reciprocal plus erotic it's somehow an intrinsically erotic reciprocality right. So my next step for what I would want to hear from you is just like breaking down that concept of reciprocality and bringing out like the arousal component,. The volitional component, and the like in what way is it essentially sexual or erotic right which may you may just get out of the arousal part.