How to Get Your Child Out of Negative Emotions

When kids become upset frustrated or angry how do we get them out of those negative emotions so that they don't become hard-wired well the first thing to do is demonstrate it to them. When you open your heart and be totally transparent your child will remember their moment in their day because you're observing them. Never try to reason with your child when they're emotional i mean think about it do you want to be reasoned with when you're emotionally going to be left alone. Tell the story of a little girl that lived in a magical land with castles and dragons and she was working on this particular thing  and at the end they'll say was that me and you say i don't know