How Can I Convince Her to Do Anal Sex?

A woman really needs to trust you sexually. And she really has to feel relaxed in order for it to be pleasurable. anal is such a, it's so vulnerable. It can be extremely uncomfortable if done incorrectly or done too quickly. If she doesn't extensively talk it through with you, most likely she will not feel comfortable. I always say like start with the baby steps, start really, really small. That's what gets results. There's no defensiveness. It's an open understanding conversation that leads to an effective outcome of actually trying something that she is comfortable with.