Are You Steering People Towards Schedules That Are More Subtle or Empty?

You can get tremendous benefit from things that are either not well intentioned or just objectively bad for you. The ultimate case is you hear from all these people who survived cancer and it was the most important thing that ever happened to them. So a train wreck can be good for you on some level, because your response to it can begood for you. You can become stronger in all kinds of ways even by being mistreated by people.