How to Find Your Avatar

The social media DM, I am, is an email, some crazy form of formal communication that they no longer do. Where can you find your avatar? You got to think, research, hunt, find them. How old are they typically like stereotypically? How old is your avatar? Do they pop up in your DMs? These other questions though are super, super important. The bottom line is my big question is who else already has their attention?