How to Argue Well in a Disagreement

S is scoring points, T is thinking the worst and P is putting down. I would be more similar to how you used to manage conflict, which is I hate conflict. I'm a peacemaker. I just would rather avoid it. But one of the best things that I've learned is the value of actually after a conflict going back and repairing that. You know, using what you're talking about through the stop signs. It was just being willing to return and go, Aaron, we had that really weird, difficult, whatever conversation last night or this morning,. Let's talk about that.