Is It an Appropriate Response in Interpersonal Relationships?

In certain contexts that might be an appropriate response, but most of the time, and especially in interpersonal relationships, i don't think that's an appropriate response. Even if you'rehe person who is hurting in this moment, both of you matter. When you prioritize intent first, it's going to derail any kind of repair process. In order to have a complete repair process, i do think that you need to understand what was going on with the other person. Why did they do the thing?