How Much Mental Space Is She Taking Up in Your Life?

A big thing is sort of how much mental space is she taking up in your life? How much do you anticipate her needs? Do you remember dates? The things that matter to her. She mentioned, oh, I'm allergic to shellfish a month ago. That even something simple like that is romantic proof because if a guy didn't care about her, he wouldn't bother to remember that. It's an honest signal that you're allocating important resources to her.