The Gap in the Gain

The gap in the gain is a model for teaching people how to take ownership of their experiences and increase the amazing value of every experience that they have. When you're in the gap, you're bitter about what happened. People who are in the gain can take any experience and turn it into gains. They don't let their own experience control them. The only person whose opinion of my progress that matters is myself. And if i measure back on where i was a year ago, holy cow, i'm totally i've made some great progress. I think when you start living in the gan, you really stop trying to be anyone else. You stop needing to prove yourself as someone else.