What Happens When Something Happens?

The way that events work in the public sphere is, oftentimes what happens as an event happens and is publicized publicly. It's evoking a response within us that feels disproportionate to either the far awayness of the event or the unfamiliarity of event. Let's talk about this in terms of grief first, cause this is one of the ways that it's easiest to understand this. We do not live in a culture that knows, that is very versed in grief. So lots of people have lots of grief that they are carrying around, ungrieved grief. And what happened when that person that you knew of because of their knownness in the world, when they died? Oft