How Do You Create Safety in Your Home?

Strops: How do our kids know it's ok? We're trying, at least to make a safe home. You want to be present with those emotions and help them learn that feelings just give us insight into what's happening in the thought bubbles. It gives us kind of a front door, or maybe a back door, into the thought bubbles that we're having, and in gives us more information. So we want to work with it, rather than a running away from it. Many times it's based of interpretations. Lots of times the feelings make sense with what we see. And so we have to figure out its parents as what is my child seeing?