Relationship Coaching - Is There a Secret Trick to Creating Change?

Sinkaeminmsasori: As with so many things related to relationships, it is a process of growth that is a not for the faint hearted. We have to walk into fear around what will happen if i let go of the control,. Can i take responsibility? Who am i without some one else telling me what to do? What do i really want for my life? And how do i take responsibility for creating that? It is much, much safer, emotionally, to blame other people for our problems than it is to turn that back on ourselves and say, how did i get here, and what do i want and what i going to do to change it?"